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How to Use Crystals to Fall in Love

man and woman lying in a crystal heart grid

Are you ready to fall in love? Maybe your heart yearns for magical romance that awakens the soul and sets your aura aglow.

Whether you are single and looking or happily together, crystals can help you discover that fantastical type of love. Learn how to use energy crystals to manifest your heart's deepest desires.

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Valentine's Day is coming

Do you believe that Valentine's Day is too commercialized or superficial? Not me! I love to celebrate Valentine's Day no matter what my relationship status.

Past the commercial surface, Valentine's is a time to stop and appreciate the special people who I take for granted. Sure, we all know that gratitude and gratefulness are supposed to happen every day- but sometimes we get so caught up in our own lives that we forget.

Valentine's Day is the perfect reminder to stop and smell the love in the air.  It is also a time for introspection and self-care.


Is your Heart chakra blocked?

We often associate blocked Heart chakras with people who cannot find love or healthy relationships. This is true in many cases. However, plenty of people in relationships, marriages, and close-knit families can get blocked Heart chakras too.

In this article, we discuss the love struggles experienced by both singles and couples. You also learn how to unblock the chakra for Valentine's Day and beyond. 

No matter what your relationship status, you could deserve a little heart-healing right now. Let crystals pave the path for an open Heart chakra so you can love again and love better.

Healing your heart for Valentine's Day

Traditionally, Valentine's Day meant couples were out on the town, filling up romantic restaurants or strolling hand in hand along the streets of downtown.

This year, many of us are still taking precautions due to COVID-19 Omicron. Here in Rhode Island, severe winter weather has been causing some shutdowns as well. So... what will your Valentine's Day look like?

No matter where you stand on this day of love, your Heart chakra needs balancing. Crystals can help. 

Imagine if your heart was totally open. You would love everything and everyone and nobody would be able to do wrong in your eyes. You would accept everything that exists in the world for what it is. 

Those with a fully open heart are hard to come by. You may know people who are generous and loving, but they come with limits. Even these lovely have some kind of blockage in their Heart chakra energies. Perhaps they are blocked in the energy of self-love. Perhaps they are resentful of their financial situation. Perhaps they cannot fully love their neighbors. 

While you may never achieve a perfectly open Heart chakra flow, you can keep trying for your best. 

If you're single and loveless...

Being single doesn't mean you have a blocked Heart chakra, especially if you are single and happy. Being single on Valentine's Day is great for many people. They embrace freedom and celebrate the occasion with friends or family. Some ignore the holiday altogether.

However, there is an entire population of people who are lonely and single on Valentine's Day. They lament the fact that they are alone. They despise watching other happy couples coo. They yearn for a soulmate or even just a companion.

Many of these people have a blocked Heart chakra that prevents them from finding a partner. These are the ones needing self-care to open the flow of love.

3 ways for singles to open the Heart chakra

Now that you know about blocked Heart chakras, you are motivated to open your flow. Here are 3 crystal healing techniques meant to get the love moving in your life.  

1. Manifestation Lists for Singles

Crystal you need: Green Aventurine. This Heart chakra stone is the master of manifestation. It attracts an abundance of love and aligns right into your heart chakra. Wear Aventurine as you make your list, or place a stone on your desk when you're writing/typing it out.

How to do it:  Make a Love Manifestation list. On this list, write down what you want in your future relationship and partner. Include how you would like to feel, how you would grow as a person in this relationship, the adventures you would like to have with your partner, and major life goals you can achieve together.

Avoid superficial things like height, weight, hair color. Although you can hold an idea of what you would like in regards to physical traits, it is best to be open-minded. One of the top reasons your Heart chakra may have become blocked is because you emphasized trivial things.

Even factors such as education and job should not be focal in your manifestation of a partner. You can wish for a financially responsible or career-motivated partner, but avoid specifics like he/she must be a doctor or lawyer. The first is broad and attainable while the second strategy will severely limit you and will fill you with constant disappointments. Be very careful and review your manifestation and affirmation lists to filter out such self-sabotage.

With your Green Aventurine in hand, repeat positive affirmations daily.

2. Crystal Necklaces for Singles

Crystals you need: Crystal Necklaces. Pick a green or pink Love Crystal for best results, such as Moldavite or Rose Quartz.

How to do it: When you wear your love crystal necklace directly on the heart, it has a powerful effect.

Before wearing your necklace, you want to program it. Find a relaxing place and create the ambiance you desire. Perhaps you want to light a scented candle and listen to the sounds of the rain forest... whatever works for you.

Put your necklace in your hand while you go into a mini-meditation.

Go into a relaxed, self-meditation mode. Wash away the stress, fears, and anxiety. Clear your mind of self-destructive thoughts. Begin to focus on the type of person and relationship you want to attract into your life.

Once your intention is set into your necklace, it is ready to be worn often. Proudly wear your necklace out and about and let it serve as a magnet of positive love.


3. Gemstone Elixirs for Singles

Crystals you need: Tumbled stones in Rhodonite and Carnelian

How to do it: For busy times when you can't manage affirmations and layouts, gemstone elixirs are a great go-to.

Select tumbled stones make a good choice to place in your drinking water. Leave the stones in the water for one hour and your water will be filled with love energy vibration.

Alternatively, place the stones closely around the jug. When you drink this water, it will cleanse away your negative habits and fears, replacing it with love-attracting energy. 

If you're in a relationship... 

My husband and I are lucky enough to have our anniversary on February 13th. That means our celebration is doubled. I'm married to my soulmate, so why is my Heart chakra blocked?

  • We have an energetic 3-year-old toddler son
  • We are stuck in an endless pandemic
  • We both work full time

Couples and parents are subject to Heart chakra blockages just as singles are. Parents have a lot to juggle and often push their relationship to the back of the priority list. This leads to a lot of trouble. 

Married partners go through life's stresses and joys together. When times get tough, you have to bring your energy back to the heart center.

Relationships are dynamic - constantly changing and evolving. Just because you are in a relationship or married, doesn't mean you can neglect the Heart chakra. Relationships are sensitive. They can sour easily if not preserved.

The good news is, you fell in love once. You can do it again and again and again- including this Valentine's Day.

Opening the Heart chakra is something you need to do frequently throughout your entire life. I for one will be focusing on the Heart chakra this year more than ever. I invite you to join me.

3 ways partners can open their Heart chakras

1. Learn your Partner's Love Language

How to do it: Do you know which love language your partner speaks? All couples can benefit by reading Gary Chapman's bestseller book "5 Love Languages". This is a simple yet powerful book that you and your partner can read together or separately. Once you know your partner's love language, you can engage in an activity that they will be sure to appreciate. Here are some ideas:

Gifts: If your partner's love language is gifts, find the perfect Valentine's Day gift for them at Satin Crystals. This year's favorites include Moldavite necklaces, Carnelian stones, and Malachite bracelets.

Positive Affirmations: If your partner's love language is positive affirmations, create some affirmations for them while holding a Chrysocolla heart. Chrysocolla opens your Throat chakra to loving expression while healing your Heart Chakra. Learn How to Write your own Affirmations.

Quality Time: If your partner's love language is quality time, have a meaningful crystal moment together. Create a beautiful tumbled stone grid around the both of you, put on some music, relax, and talk or enjoy the healing silence together.

Services: If your partner's love language is service, provide them with a meaningful crystal layout. As your partner relaxes, lay chakra stones on their body and infuse them with good vibes using a tuning fork. 

Physical Touch: If your partner's love language is physical touch, give them a crystal massage. Pick up one of these massage wands and treat them to a night of relaxation.

2. Crystal Grids for the Family Home

Crystals you Need: As many Love Crystals and tumbled stones you desire

How to do it: Forming love crystal grids in areas of the home where you spend time with your partner can enhance your relationship.

  • If you both enjoy cooking together, grid the kitchen with pink and green eggs.

  • If you spend time chatting in the living room, create balanced Feng Shui with Rose Quartz.

  • If you seek romance or are trying for a child, make Carnelian, Jasper, and Moonstone mandalas around the bedroom.

The soothing energy of Love Crystals dissipates tension. It replaces anger, resentment, and criticism with a more peaceful vibe. Love Crystal Grids also remind you to focus on your partner every time they enter your line of sight.

If your partner doesn't believe in the power of crystals or doesn't want to actively engage in relationship work, Love Crystal Grids can still help. He or she sees them as just decorative pieces, while you know they are providing positive vibrations.

3. Photo Gazing your Partner

Crystal you Need: Star Rose Quartz crystal ball. This type of Rose Quartz has opalescent clarity that's perfect for gazing.

How to do it: Maybe you spend a lot of time away from your partner. Is the strain of a long-distance relationship or mismatched work schedules starting to take a toll?

You can use your Star Rose Quartz ball and a photo of your lover for gazing. It's your choice: you can gaze directly into the photo or directly into your love crystal. Perhaps you want to alternate. 

As your mind relaxes, begin by giving appreciation to your partner for all of their positive qualities. Allow the feeling of love and connection to grow in your heart. Visualize the future you want to build together.

If your partner is with you, you can gaze directly at each other; if it's not too weird or funny, and they agree!

Top 7 Crystals for Valentine's Day Love

Here are a few of our favorite heart-opening crystals, great for Valentine's Day and every day:

pink rose quartz ball

Rose Quartz

This pretty pink crystal is the ultimate stone of true love. Use Rose Quartz for finding love, bettering your relationships, and/or working on self-love. It's the stone for all of us- no matter what our love status. SHOP ROSE QUARTZ.

pink rhodochrosite sphere


This deep and soulful pink stone is known as the "Soulmate stone". If you are seeking the soulmate of your life, use and wear Rhodochrosite to attract your mate. If you've already found your soulmate, this gemstone helps you maintain a good relationship that flourishes instead of flounders. SHOP RHODOCHROSITE.

pink and black rhodonite sphere


This rich pink and black stone specializes in celebrating and attracting friendships. Valentine's isn't just about romantic love. If you want to strengthen your friendships and family bonds, use and wear Rhodonite. It makes a lovely gift as well. SHOP RHODONITE.

green malachite sphere


What an intense heart healer Malachite is! This stone digs deep and reveals your hidden traumas and past pains. Use Malachite when you're really ready to heal your heart and move forward in love. SHOP MALACHITE.

green moldavite sphere

Are you looking for a cosmic soulmate? A match that was written in the stars above? Green Moldavite is a rare and unique meteoric gemstone that will vibrate your heart with true universal love. This stone transforms your current unhealthy situation into something more magical. SHOP MOLDAVITE.

orange and white carnelian sphere

If you're looking for hot love, Carnelian is your stone. This passion and romance-filled gemstone helps you become a magnet of love. Attract desirable people into your realm with Carnelian gemstones and jewelry. SHOP CARNELIAN.

green and pink tourmaline circle

Tourmaline helps you along your love journey in many ways. Red, pink, and Green Tourmaline heal you at the heart and allow you to find rock-solid love that is full of purpose. Black Tourmaline protects you against people who have bad intentions or maybe trying to use you. SHOP TOURMALINE.

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How do you celebrate love?

Which Love Crystals are your favorite? How do you celebrate Valentine's Day? We would love to hear your stories. Feel free to contact us by commenting  below and we will get back to you. 

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