Relationship Cord Cutting with Carnelian

Relationship cord cutting is a holistic technique that allows you to release unhealthy attachments. Carnelian is the stone that specializes in this.

There are times in your life when relationships come to an end. This could be a natural process of growing apart, a conscious decision to release a dysfunctional relationship, or the death of a loved one. Let's learn how to cut the cord of relationships with Carnelian.

You may have tried to stay friends with an ex-lover, but the friendship doesn't work, and you need to say goodbye. You may have lost your father and wish to stop grieving after four years. You may have decided to cut off a lopsided friendship once and for all. You are ready to cut the cord with Carnelian.

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What is the Etheric Cord?

When two people form a bond, an etheric energy cord is created between them. Some clairvoyants can see this cord. They say it resembles a silver string that attaches from one person's Solar Plexus chakra to another. The stronger the bond, the thicker the line.

If your relationship simmers or you are no longer in contact with the person, the bond may become slim again. However, some bonds remain strong and in place even when you aren't in contact. That's why if you reunite with a good friend after 10 years, it's as if time never passed. The bond remained.

One bond that is said to remain throughout the lifetime is between mother and child. Even if your mother is estranged, you may have that feeling of wanting to know her, or a tug in your heart to find out who she is. Similarly, most mothers are so bonded with their kids that they will do almost anything for them.

Imagine how many silver cords you have right now, stemming from your Solar Plexus and out into the world. What a bright and shiny matrix of silver that connects us all!

Bonds don't disappear just because someone dies; you are connected to loved ones who have passed to the spirit world. We are all connected in realms beyond our imagination.

When should I cut the cord?

Strong relationships are what give life meaning. We are meant to play and work together, learn together, laugh together, and cry together.

When someone leaves your life, the cord that connects you two will usually diminish naturally over time. If it doesn't, you may need to cut the cord.

Cord-cutting is most important when you can't let go of someone who was once close but is now gone. This is due to the end of a relationship or death. Let's discuss both scenarios:

Ending Romantic Relationships

When a relationship is ending, your feelings for that person diminish. The most relatable example is the end of a romantic partnership. The love and passion you once felt are practically gone, and you're ready to move on. 

Do you know someone who still talks about their ex from ten years ago? Unfortunately, they have not cut the etheric cord and cannot fully move on. They could benefit from Carnelian cord cutting.

It's usually harder for the person being left than the person doing the leaving. They feel abandoned, angry, sad, and inadequate. While some might bounce back quickly, others need help cutting the cord so they can recover.

Ending Family Relationships 

It's not just romantic relationships that need cord-cutting. Maybe you had an abusive mother who beat you physically or verbally put you down all the time. The mother and child cord is the strongest connection, so this is very hard to get over.

Maybe you cut contact with your mother, but your feelings of sadness, inadequacy, anger, and rage are holding you back. You will need to do a lot of cord-cutting exercises with Carnelian to help you heal.

This example can apply to any family member or relative. Cutting the corn with Carnelian can end the cycle of destruction so that you can move on by healing and forgiving, whether or not you choose to keep contact with the person.

Ending Friendships & Associations

Do you have a friend, coworker, or associate with whom you bonded but are no longer interested in maintaining the relationship? Maybe you differ in views, or maybe you have discovered that they are psychic vampires.

Some people make you feel miserable. They could be users, abusers, and selfish people who only want to take from you and give nothing back. These folks are called psychic vampires, and you can cut them off using Carnelian. When you cut your connection with psychic vampires, you feel relief and a sigh of good riddance.

Saying Goodbye to Deceased Loved Ones

When you lose a pet, the ache and pain in your stomach can be overwhelming. You are so sad. But with each day, you get better and better. It doesn't mean that you've forgotten about your beloved pet, but the relationship has changed.

Sometimes, people can't get over a death. Have you seen the movies or heard a story about the widow dancing around in her wedding gown even after two decades? Or about the mother who is cradling an empty blanket years after the passing of a baby?

Losing a loved one to death is extremely painful. We go through the five stages of grief and eventually come to acceptance. In the examples above, the people did not go through the five stages and are stuck in denial or depression.

If your mourning has gone on longer than natural, you could benefit from cutting the cord with Carnelian.

When you cut the cord with your sister who passed away two years ago, it doesn't mean you're cutting her out of your memory or heart. It means you are letting go of the anger and sadness. You are moving on to the state of acceptance. You are ready to accept the fact that your relationship dynamics have changed.

How do I cut the cord with Carnelian?

Carnelian specializes in relationship cord cutting. Here are 5 techniques you can use for cord cutting with Carnelian. It is recommended you do as many as possible and as often as you need:

#1 Cord-Cutting with Meditation or Hypnosis

If you have access to a hypnotherapist, you can explain to them that you are ready to move on with a relationship. An experienced hypnotherapist can help you release the bond through your deep subconscious state.

Alternatively, you can do the very powerful Satin Crystals Carnelian Guided Meditation for Cord Cutting.

Recommended Carnelian: 

• Hold a Carnelian sphere in each hand, or one at your center

• Wear a Carnelian Necklace or Carnelian Pendant for protection and release

#2 Cord-Cutting with Layout Plates

If you have a good crystal healer or Reiki practitioner, have them wave or place a Carnelian plate over your Solar Plexus chakra. This can gently cut through the etheric cord that needs cutting. It can clear out old energy and attachment.

This technique can also be done in the comfort of your own home. You may choose to lie down and place the Carnelian charger plate over your chakras and visualize the release of the person. Or do your layout while listening to the meditation video above.

Recommended Carnelian: 

• Carnelian charger plate to place on the Sacral Chakra

• Carnelian tumbled stones to form a grid around your body 

#3 Cord-cutting with Affirmations

Reciting affirmations keeps your mind and energy on your goal. Carnelian positive affirmations sink deep into your psyche and help you cut the cord of a relationship. 

Write custom affirmations based on your circumstances and the person you wish to release. Alternatively, order the Satin Crystals Set of 21 Carnelian affirmations to recite. You get 7 mantras for cord cutting, 7 mantras for protection against psychic vampires, and 7 mantras for attracting passionate romance.

Recommended Carnelian: 

• Carnelian bracelet for writing affirmations

• Carnelian heart to hold while reciting affirmations

• Carnelian jewelry to keep your thoughts high and energy protected

#4 Cord-cutting with Carnelian Jewelry

Even when you're not actively engaged in a healing session, you can carry Carnelian stones and wear Carnelian jewelry to help you continually release the energy of the person you're letting go of.

First, cleanse, charge, and program your Carnelian gems. Program the jewelry to cut the cord with one specific person. Keep them on you often and don't overthink it.

Which color of Carnelian is best for cord-cutting?

You will find Carnelian in red, orange, yellow, and light tones. Learn which color to use for your cord-cutting situation:

Red & Orange Carnelian for Slaying

If you're cutting the cord of someone who did you wrong, you might want to choose red or orange Carnelian for a quick slay. These colors work bolder, faster, and more furiously. 

Here are some situations where you may want to slay the Psychic Vampire out of your life by cutting the cord with red or orange Carnelian:

• Letting go of an abusive partner who didn't love you, but you got attached to anyway

• Releasing a family member who did nothing but use and harm you

• Saying goodbye to a best friend who deceived and betrayed you

• Forgetting about a boss who you worked for relentlessly for the past 15 years, but never appreciated you, and fired you

Yellow & Light Carnelian for Forgiveness

If you want to cut the cord with someone who meant so much to you and did you well, you might choose a gentle color like yellow or light tones. It does the job in a nurturing way, over time.

Here are some situations where you might choose yellow or light Carnelian for a soothing, loving cord-cutting:

• The loss of a special grandmother whom you loved with your heart and soul, but are having a hard time recovering from her death

• Having to say goodbye to a romantic partner with whom you had a nice relationship with but you ultimately weren't meant to be together

• Wanting to date again, 5 years after the passing of your husband, but feeling guilty about moving on

• Letting go emotionally of a nephew you care for who has become addicted to drugs and engages in harmful behavior, hence you can't be around him until he seeks help

It's a great idea to have all the colors of Carnelian on hand for different purposes. Along with slaying psychic vampires and cutting cords, this energetic stone has a variety of benefits and uses.

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• What else is Carnelian all about?

• Shop the Carnelian Collection

• How to use Protection Crystals

• Carnelian Guuided Meditation

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